At a certain
point in my life being an AFC made it very difficult to crack all this “game”
or whatever, so studding hard I come across a lot of guys: in books, in videos,
even in field that tried to “sell” me the “you have to be whatever she want you
to be in order to bed her”…bullshit. Their theory was: it doesn't matter what
you do and what you want as long as you get in her pants you are the “king”, if
she wants flowers u give her flowers, if she wants gifts you give her gifts, if
she wants you to make push-ups in your fingertips u do that cause’ you are a
fucking gentlemen and so on (now, after all this years I can understand that
point of view and I’m telling you: Sometimes it works BUT IS NOT WORTH IT).
OBVIOUSLY I had a major problem with this kind of “game”…ok
I’ll be honest, I had two majors’ problems:
1. I do not lie and I do not do something
just to please the others or to get the outcome that I’m going for, I know
sometime can be a fucking big hustle to stand tall facing all the problems but
I believe that only like that you can improve and upgrade and become every day
the best version of yourself
2. I don’t want to be the king J
Hidden Agenda in
TPC means the way some men choose to attract women: they will use anything what
is not in accordance with what they are; even if they don’t lie they will hide
important parts of their behavior and character. Actually it doesn't matter why
they do this, is their problem and all this “victories” are just small
victories, ain’t something to take in consideration for a role model.
Think about this: women are attracted to men
because of their status…this is a certainty so why does someone lie when all
you have to do is to improve your status? What’s gonna happen in “the morning
after” or next month or whenever she will find out the real you? and be sure
sooner or later she will, though a lot of men think women are stupid…. cause’
they don’t understand them J …they are not,
they just think differently and they will know(feel) that is something “wrong”
with her “man”.
So instead of
losing time to build up stories and nice environment to “sell” a regular
unpolished diamond like real one, focus your energy in polishing “the big
stone” which is inside of you and in no time it will become the best real diamond in all time.
There is only
one tool which can polish you: LEARNING. As long as u keep learning your status
will improve continuously, as soon as you stop learning somebody else will
overtake you.
DON’T BE CASUAL IN LEARNING. Learn as much as u can, read books,
watch movies, even porn if it doesn't become a habit, play chess, socialize but
do it with a goal set in your mind.
To attract a
woman is very easy, to fuck her is a little bit harder, but still easy if you
know what to do and the worst part is that she doesn’t see it coming, on top of
that she will fell good (at least until next morningJ) but to do it in your own, unique style
offering her an experience, something that she never felt before….mmmmm…..this
is the real challenge. Every woman doesn't want to be considered an adventure
for u she wants to be TAKEN in an adventure, so is your job to do it.
When you are
focusing on upgrading your status than all your visions will change: you will
stop chasing women because they will fell attracted to you and they will “hunt”
you, you will have another level of understanding, you will have the ability to
help others at your will and a lot more.
I set a goal in my
mind: every time I’ll see a guy with a hidden agenda I’ll amog him like he was never before, I don’t like to
interfere in others business but, this time he will get cock-blocked with no mercy : )))
Good luck with
your decisions!